Friday, 20 February 2015

December 10, 2005: From The Eyes Of My brother Chinedu...



I don't remember very clear details of that day, but I remember the emotions vividly. I remember that my wife, Karin, the girls and I were at home. I received a phone call from Mom and she wailed the news that Kechi's plane had gone down and that Kechi was gone. Those were her exact words, 'Kechi is gone'. After a stunned moment of shock, I asked her to repeat it and she did and then I screamed loud. Karin rushed out of the room to find out what was wrong and I told her. I did not become very emotional then. I went very quiet, then I told Mom I was coming to Apapa right away. By then, Ulo and some others were already gathered in Apapa, Mom was wailing continuously. 

Before I left, I sat Chisa and Jaachi down and explained to them what had happened. Chisa understood immediately, because she was old enough to, and started to weep. Jaachi did not fully grasp what was going on at that time, as she was quite young then. Karin was in total shock, and she had not reacted yet. I cannot remember, but I think I picked Nkechi up and we rushed to Apapa. 

We walked into the house and there was major mourning going on in the house. Mom was being restrained, so she would not hurt herself. That picture has never left me - the level of grief that was in that room. At that point I fell on the floor and started crying. I cried and wailed, and then just sat quietly. I remember that Dad never accepted the idea of Kechi's death. I remember that he would come into the living room where we were all gathered to say one or two things and go away, but he never once accepted that Kechi was gone.

Then after a while, more and more people gathered and we were all inconsolable, then the other news came! Kechi was alive!
 I have never seen anything like that. How all that level of grief and mourning turned into magnificent joy and praise. We all started praising God and dancing and worshipping God, thanking Him. There was an explosion of joy that Kechi was alive. It was in the midst of that rejoicing that I got a nudging in my spirit to separate myself a bit, so I left the scene of rejoicing and I immediately went to one of the rooms upstairs and knelt down and began to receive a very clear and vivid ministration.

 “Yes, indeed Kechi is alive. She will be okay. She will be fine, but it will take time.
The recovery will be long, but she will be restored fully. It will take time, but it will be complete.”

After I shared the ministration, there was rejoicing, and then we started discussing logistics, who was to leave immediately to be with Ije, what was the best hospital to take Kechi to etc. But God soon showed us that He was in full control of the situation and the rest is history.

...My brother, Chinedu's account.

To be continued...

4 comments:

  1. It is still hard for me to read these accounts. You have to understand that Kechi is the first Duru grandchild, and the apple of everyone's eyes. I remember I kept thinking how my trips to Lagos would now be without Kechi.
    Pain to Praise indeed!
    I thank you, everlasting Father, for undeserved grace.
    Amen.

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    1. U are indeed a strong woman and a hero of a kind. It take ur kind to go through this trauma and still stand. I now understand where Kechi got her strong spirit and will-power from. God really has a purpose for everything. I'm so happy for u and the family especially Kechi. May God continue His blessings upon u and ur whole family. I can't wait to read this book. How do I get it? I live in Owerri, Imo state.

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  2. That message from Chinedu was one of the strongest pillars of the faith that was exhibited in the period that immediately followed the crash. It was impossible to have hope based on what one could actually see, or experience remotely as we did through the mother. It almost became a mantra, "She will be healed completely, But it will take time!"

    The Bible enjoins us to walk by faith and not by sight. This experience made obedience to that word easy.

    Praise Jehova!

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  3. Each time I read anything about that crash, all I can do is shake my head. Indeed the human heart is elastic. Its able to stretch to the limits with pain and all other kinds of emotions. I dont k now how you all managed to go through those days. My sister's daughter got admitted to Loyola last year and after attending the memorial service for the kids, she[my sister] swore she'd never attend another. The pain was too much for her. The emotions in the crowd still so raw. All I can say is To God be all the Glory, for your daughter who's alive and for the other parents who have found strength to move on. I often wonder how these parents are doing, especially the couple that lost all their kids. It's just beyond words. Even if we hardly say it, our hearts are ALWAYS with your family and other families who went through that terrible experience.May God continue to keep all of you under the shadow of His wings. Have a great week.

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