I had been sitting been sitting beside Kechi,
reading some bible passages from Psalms to her when it seemed to me that I heard a
gurgling sound from the respirator. Then it started to beep. I was alarmed and
thought the machine was defective again. I ran out to get the sister, who had
just stepped out, and she brought out a long tube connected to a machine and
proceeded to suction Kechi's mouth and nose. Apparently, saliva and mucus
sometimes filled the patient's mouth and nose and had to be suctioned off.
Then she said to Kechi, “Come on, darling, open
your mouth”. AND KECHI MOVED HER MOUTH! I exclaimed, “Can she hear you?” “Oh yes”, replied
the nurse. She asked Kechi again to open her mouth and Kechi
moved her eyelids.
“No, darling, not your eyes”, the nurse laughed,
“your mouth”. I could not believe it. All these days, Kechi had
lain unmoving. It was very startling to see her respond to
anyone.
“So……has she been hearing me all this while?” I
asked the nurse. She said yes.
Then Kechi moved her mouth some more and sounds
came from her throat. She was trying to speak!
The nurse calmed her down and explained to her she
would not be able to speak because she had a tube down her throat. I also came
round to the side of her bed and told her to calm down, and that I would sing
for her. I started singing one of her favorite songs The Woodpecker's Song.
The second
verse had always been a problem to me because I had somehow never been able to
memorize it. Kechi always used to correct me when I got there. As I got to the
second verse, she shook her head slightly and I said, “I know, I'm messing it
up. Please bear with me, okay?” She actually shook her head! I almost lost it then, but I pulled myself
together because I knew my crying would upset her.
I sang more songs to her until it was past
visiting time. I was overwhelmed and needed to call my family and
spread the news...
To Be Continued...

Resurrection morning!
ReplyDeleteThat's what it must have felt like to Ije. Imagine days of seeing this immobile daughter of yours and hoping against hope that somewhere in all this is life. The hum of the respiratory machines and the other machines being your real source of expectation.
Then she responds!! Alleluya...
I still remember that day. The euphoria was like we had at the day of the crash. Everyone was dancing for joy. Kechi was "coming back"!
Ulo, you captured it well. Seeing Kechi lying so still for weeks on end was just so hard. Every response, no matter how little, from her was cause for endless thanksgiving.
ReplyDeleteI look at Kechi now and think how far she has come. It's been an amazing journey, and it's not over.
Ulo, you captured it well. Seeing Kechi lying so still for weeks on end was just so hard. Every response, no matter how little, from her was cause for endless thanksgiving.
ReplyDeleteI look at Kechi now and think how far she has come. It's been an amazing journey, and it's not over.