Sunday, 1 November 2015

Johannesburg: Assuring Words; Wise Counsel...

I had been warned that there would be ups and downs in Kechi's recovery process. I just needed to stay strong. “Dear Lord”, I prayed, “Please infuse me with Your joy. Joy belongs to You and Your joy is my strength. Amen.”

During the afternoon visit later that day, Kechi again reacted to the sound of my voice. She tried to open her eyes and started to move her lips. I could sense her frustration and tried to calm her down. Eventually, the nurse had to give her the muscle relaxant and she calmed down. I sang to her again as always before leaving.

Pat's friend, Noni, visited when I was in the waiting room and assured me that she and the rest of her church were praying for Kechi and she promised to visit again soon. 

There was a certain calmness I felt about Kechi's condition that day. It was very reassuring to me that she recognized my voice, although she got agitated. 

When I spoke to Ulo later, she said I should reassure Kechi that even when she did not hear my voice, she should know that I was nearby, ready to be with her the second visiting time came around. She also suggested I should tell Kechi the visiting times and start each visit by telling her, “It's 4pm and I'm here”. That way, Kechi would know that sometimes I was in the room with her and at other times, I was nearby. This made a lot of sense to me and I adopted it from the very next visit...

To Be Continued...

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